If I could take a guess, I would guess that 99% of the seduction community doesn’t understand rules and how they work. Again, this is something that I’m really starting to become conscious of. Only a very few select men get to this point and really understand the importance of having rules.
1. Intro
2. Let’s take a look at a really good poker player.
Let’s take a look at a really good poker player. A really good poker player doesn’t expect to win every game. However, he knows that by following his rules of playing the game, that he will almost always come out on top at the end of the day. He knows that he’s not going to win every game, and may even go on a short losing streak, but by sticking to his rules, he’s going to leave with more money than anyone else playing at that table.
3. lack of discipline
Now let’s look at the rookie poker player. He has no rules in place to ensure that he comes out on top at the end of the day. Instead, he tries to win every game, and has no overall strategy that he sticks to. He just can’t resist the temptation of trying to win every game, so he continually alters his strategy while chasing that pot of gold. However, at the end of the day, he always leaves with nothing. What am I getting at? The reason why 99% of the guys in the seduction community aren’t pulling mature women, is because of the lack of discipline. For instance, how many of you know that you shouldn’t contact a girl more than once, but you do so anyway because you think she didn’t see that you called or might not have received your voicemail or message? How many of you thought girls were coming home with you, had the girls break off on their own, and you chase them down and try to persuade them to still come home with you?
4. breaking basic rules
If I could guess, I’d say that almost every single one of you reading this take part in breaking basic rules because you think a girl MIGHT still give you your intended outcome. You’re playing like the poker player that changes his strategy for every single game, chasing the pot of gold that never appears, instead of sticking to a solid strategy, even if it means losing. Like I said before, I have a basic rule of never calling a girl more than once. Do all of those girls pick up and/or call me back? No. Do I call again because the girl REALLY seemed to like me when we were talking? No. Why not? Because I’m not breaking my rules for any woman. But do you know what happens when I don’t call twice? Most of those girls eventually end up calling me back when they’re free.
5. Your type of mindset
When you are truly an alpha or a guy worth having, you come from everything being about you. You know that you can easily get other mature women, so if a girl isn’t down with what you’re about, then you say fuck it. You don’t care how hot she is, how much she seemed to like you, what she said, or even if she’s dangling the pussy right in front of your face; you aren’t breaking your rules for any woman whatsoever. And this is exactly why men with this type of mindset get laid and guys who place the pussy above their rules, don’t.
6. Final Thoughts
No woman is more important than your rules. You aren’t playing to try to win every girl that you come across. You aren’t playing to try to even win maybe girls. Like the intelligent poker player, you are playing to win in the long run. And the only way you win in the long run, is by sticking to your rules. Don’t let desperation and mirages of an oasis cloud your judgment, because I can guarantee that once you blink and start breaking your rules, you will regret doing so.